As we have seen, there is political advantage in this for some people.
Any disagreement coming from white voices can conveniently be lumped together, whether it comes from crudely racist or politically informed positions.
We all look the same, and the amount of complaining and criticising we do makes us all sound the same.
Zapiro now has an abundance of right-wing fans, while township residents want his blood. This is a sharp turnaround.
The vast majority of black youth, born after the mid-1980s, do not grow up in a world signposted with information about the well- meaning white folk who sided with the ANC in the struggle.
Why should they be told this kind of thing, and who is going to do it? Yet we expect them to find out about it, and we're outraged when they behave in ways that demonstrate they don't give a damn.
We expect them to realise that we are nuanced and politically diverse and cannot all be boxed in with the apartheid regime and the Reitz Four. And yet we never bother to point this out.
Pointing this out is exactly what we need to do, publicly and a lot.
This is a relationship we're in. We can't just say "I love you" once, 15 years ago, and expect it to be remembered.
As Pieter-Dirk Uys said, there is no blueprint for what is going to happen here. We are making the blueprint.
There has never been a situation like ours in history. It is ours to construct, and it is complicated and difficult in the extreme.
We are part of the privileged minority who inflicted such emotional pain that it bends people out of shape in ways often too frightening to imagine, and yet we expect them to live up to our studenty Utopian ideals smartly and timeously, and we turn nasty when they don't.
We are not rising to the challenge of this extraordinary historical situation. We need to take a step back and think a lot harder.
There is a huge amount of work to be done in the white community, not by taking the splinters out of anyone else's eyes, but by taking responsibility for our historical legacy that is still far from over.
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