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Wed May 22 18:59:02 SAST 2013

Cyber-bully scourge

BONGIWE SITHOLE | 22 August, 2012 00:10
Computer. File photo.

An alarming increase in bullying at Gauteng schools has prompted the province's department of education to formulate a strategy to improve pupil safety.

With at least two pupils committing suicide in the first half of this year and seven expelled for bullying, Gauteng education MEC Barbara Creecy yesterday said action could not be delayed any longer.

Gauteng Childine has seen a sharp increase in the number of calls from victims of bullying.

Last year, the call centre received 4989 calls. In the past four months, it has received 2416 .

Of particular concern is the spike in cyber bullying, Unisa social worker and researcher Goodness Zulu said .

The youth research unit at Unisa published its findings in the report Working Together to End Bullying: The Prevention of Bullying in Gauteng Schools .

The report stated that 91.9% of the pupils interviewed said they were the target of a single bully, and 5.6% said they were bullied by two or more people.

Said Zulu: "Young people recognise that technology is creating a platform for bullying."

Cyber bullying is carried out on social networks, chat rooms, websites, Mxit, blogs, e-mails and SMSes, with cellphones being the weapon of choice.

Cyber bullies' verbal harassment includes stirring up rumours, making insults, issuing threats and sexually offensive remarks, and posting unflattering photos and videos, including images of people being humiliated by bullies.

Creecy yesterday said that though there had been a dramatic increase in the reporting of bullying cases, the number of incidents was probably even higher because pupils feared worse bullying if they spoke out.

"The most worrying consequence of bullying is the perpetuation of the bullying cycle," Creecy said, adding that some pupils resort to suicide to escape abuse.

Childline Gauteng receives about 25 reports of bullying a day, which adds up to 750 cases a month.

Lynne Cawood, a Gauteng Childline director, said: "Bullying is a major problem: it psychologically and physically affects children.

"Their school performances drop and it creates fear in children.

"Children develop a sense that the world is hostile."

The Unisa research found that, in addition to damaging a pupil's academic performance, bullying affected personal appearance and social interaction.

Zulu said some of the bullies interviewed during the research said they were cruel because "it made them feel good even though they knew it has a negative impact on others".

Creecy said that the department was planning a strategy to combat bullying, especially at "high-risk" schools.

"Preventative education and supportive school structures are important elements in reducing bullying in schools.

"Bullying does not just occur at schools and its effects can be felt throughout a community," she said.

So serious is the problem of bullying that both the Department of Basic Education and the Department of Women, Children and People with Disabilities last month joined forces with NGOs, the National Prosecuting Authority, the Film and Publication Board and others in a campaign to encourage pupils to take a stand against bullying and sexual violence at schools.

Deputy Basic Education Minister Enver Surty was present at the launch of the campaign in Soweto.

Surty encouraged pupils to foster "an atmosphere of mutual respect both inside and outside the classroom", to embrace "boldness, loyalty and honesty" and to report any wrongdoing.

Zulu said that a great deal needed to be done to tackle bullying, including age-appropriate intervention programmes, appropriate reporting structures, and the implementation of empowerment and proactive intervention strategies.

Zulu said that technology had made bullying more sophisticated and had enabled bullies to attack their victims out of school.

Such attacks were unremitting invasions of the life of their victim to the extent that some turned to suicide.

WHY VICTIMS SUFFER IN SILENCE

Bullying victims interviewed during the Unisa research had common responses why they chose to remain silent:

"I'm scared to tell my mother because she always yells at me."

"I am scared they would bully me more."

"I'm scared to make trouble at school."

"I'm scared to open up to my mom because she will think I'm a girl."

"Because I was feeling like I am alone in the world."

"They told me they will beat me up if I report them."

THE SCARS LEFT BY SCHOOL BULLIES

THIS month, the Gauteng department of education expelled five pupils from Lethabong Secondary School, in Pretoria. Four of them had been charged with bullying;

In February, the mother of a 16-year-old boy at a special-needs school in Milnerton, Cape Town, said her son often returned home with bruises on his face;

Also in February, David Hlongwane, of Soshanguve, near Pretoria, committed suicide after being attacked by four bullies. The bullies were suspended five months after the incident;

The Daily Dispatch reported in September that 96 Eastern Cape school children had committed suicide since the beginning of last year. The Eastern Cape education department cited bullying as among the factors that led to the suicides.

A Durban pupil did not go to school for almost two weeks in 2010 after being bullied.

Three years ago, a Cape Town pupil was hospitalised with second-degree burns after a 16-year-old pupil he was bullying threw a cup of coffee at him. - Philani Nombembe

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Scribbles

Posted 273 days ago
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Unfortunately there's little that can be done about bullying. It's something that children simply have to suffer through. I've found the best we can normally do is offer our children an open ear and perhaps some advice.
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ByronSmit

Posted 273 days ago
OR maybe a boiling hot cup of coffee each morning to take to school with them.....
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Scribbles

Posted 273 days ago
Ha! Tea maybe, they're too young to wield cups of coffee.
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UDFSupporter

Posted 273 days ago
@Scribbles: I hope your comment was not meant to be flippant. We have always had bullies in our schools and in our communities. The behaviour of our political "leaders"leaders has made matters much worse. Ganging up on others because you might have physical, social or political power is so integral to the modern South Africa where intolerance rules. Ubuntu has become a myth and it is aggression and shouting the loudest that will get you noticed. The politicians have trained the sheeple who vote them into power that violence quickly gets you prime time media coverage.

The saddest part of it all is that our children are simply mirroring what brutal savages we have become.

Abdulla-Saleeh

Posted 273 days ago
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I say these kids need to be taught to have balls, I went through school being the smallest and youngest in class and I never got bullied because I always stood up for myself. And what I have realised is that school teachers never do anything in most cases when cases of bullying are reported. Parents who are made aware of these cases need to consult the teachers and have the parents of the bullies brought in and asked to sort the issue with their little bullies failing which they should be expelled.
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ByronSmit

Posted 273 days ago
An interesting thing that I have observed being involved with the Education sector; many bullies actually return to school to become teachers. They relate more to the bullies in school than those being bullied, and so they don't provide any support. That, and they want to be cool and popular amongst the learners.... Not saying this is always the case, but it does seem to be the case quite frequently now days

Mike123

Posted 273 days ago
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Our children are simply aspiring to be thugs, just like their ANC leaders.
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Makoya1zn

Posted 273 days ago
Don't you mean your children are aspiring to be thugs?
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Makoya1zn

Posted 273 days ago
Your obsession for the ruling party(ANC) is getting boring buddy.
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MicaParis

Posted 273 days ago
Comrade Mike123

If I may ask my Chief, with due respect: What is the real purpose of initiation of argument platform under ''Timelive'' authentic media purpose?

I doubt if this platform was created to ''extremely insult'' or perpetuate racial related ''deep hatred'' and perpetual disunity in our diversity!

You sound very matured but your '''feather weight'' and precisely racially inclined comments does not serve any purpose of the core value and relevance of this blog!

Please learn how bloggers like RSA.MammoCindy and others are portraying themselves you will at list understand the reason why Timelive created this blog, I stand to be corrected precisely by the ''manager'' of this blog!

We can build a real unity in diversity if we support and love each other or at list tolerate each other as one ''common'' South African citizens in our diversity!

There is no need to insult people by promoting civil racial antics, if a person insult you simply do not respond or respond by showing a solution or relevant point of law, as every topic is related to either legal prescripts or possible relevant useful solution you might think of.

For example, in your comment above, which solution or valuable fact are you adding by uttering such words to promote unity and permanent solution to the problem of bullying!!??

I do not mean to sound ''ANC inclined'' through my avatar or meaning but if I may ask You made mention of the ANC above in an issue which clearly does not involve politics but pure social issues related to innocent purpose to build our children (future leaders and scientists) Which education are you portraying to ''our'' kids by saying that!

Comrade (friend in struggle of bullying) Mike123, Forgive me for any offence and everybody who support comments like this but I volunteer and remain to be excluded from unnecessary bile and vile like that!

I respect your Constitutionally enshrined ''freedom of speech and expression'' Comrade (friend in struggle of respect to ''our'' (all of us) South African Constitutional Law) Mike123!!!!!!!!!!!!

AnnelieLaas

Posted 273 days ago
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To tell a child to "toughen up" is the most ignorant thing you could possibly do. Parents, educators and all stakeholders within the education sector have a constitutional and legal obligation to promote the best interest of ALL children in ALL instances. By disregarding ongoing abuse, these parties are in direct contravention to South African constitutional, child and education law. Bullying is a sui generis, eo nomine offence, and it needs proper legislative addressing. Bullies ought to be held accountable in terms of restorative justice (see chapter 8 of the Children's Act 75 of 2008) and the process should be victim centred (see the Victims Service Charter). There is a new term coined by Tim Field and Neil Marr, "bullycide" which encompasses the words bullying and suicide. Thus the bottomline is - bullying has gargantuan detrimental short, mid and long term effects on not only bullies, victims and bystanders, but also involved families. Children have a right to quality education, parents have a right to protect their children from harm. Educating staff have a duty to care in terms of the in loco parentis relationship with learners and thus it is even more ignorant to state that nothing can be done. Regards, Advocate Annelie Laas
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i_stub_born

Posted 273 days ago
.....consumatum est, et cum spiritu tuo..........

AnnelieLaas

Posted 273 days ago
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Errata: Child Justice Act 75 of 2008 & Children's Act 38 of 2005

RSA.MommaCyndi

Posted 273 days ago
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Bullies tend to be cowards. That is why they pick on the easy targets or go around in packs.

Adult intervention doesn't work out well in many cases because an adult can't follow the kid around 24/7 and the bully has to 'teach' the kid a 'lesson' or risk not being the bully anymore. Best method is getting the kids themselves to stick together. If 91% of kids are being bullied, they far outnumber the bullies and even an incredibly stupid bully isn't going to take on those kind of odds

MicaParis

Posted 273 days ago
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Bullying is detrimental to well-being and development of victims. School bullying is a type of bullying that occurs in connection with education and self glory and fame. Bullying expressions can be physical, verbal, or emotional to even sexual bullying (both) against the victims.

Cyber-bullying is any bullying done through the use of technology. This form of bullying can easily go undetected because of lack of parental or authoritative supervision. It is the most anonymous form of bullying. Cyber bullying includes, but is not limited to, abuse using email, blog, instant messaging, text messaging, websites, social networking sites, etc.

Measures must be taken to make sure an adult knows what is happening to their children. There must be initiation of anti bully laws to make it clear that bullying is never acceptable. Since recognition that bullying can occur at all levels within the hierarchy of the school (i.e., including adults) there must be perpetual school conference or forum devoted to bully or victims problems. Increase adult supervision in the yard, halls and toilets and Police can even be permanently deployed to notorious known schools like Jules and most Soweto high schools.

Emphasize must be made on caring, respect and safety. Society must keep in mind also the range of possible causes such as medical, psychiatric, psychological, developmental, family problems, etc to avoid bullying. On a legal front, victims and their families 'must' have legal recourse, such as suing a school or teacher for failure to adequately supervise, for racial or gender discrimination, or for other civil rights violations through bullying and related issues.
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QPCLCD308

Posted 273 days ago
I am following your comments with ''kin interest'' in your value of being fair without fear or favor.

Keep it up Mica, Your views are very matured and relevant, they keep me coming for more!!

Surely leaving ANC and joining DA will help our country a great deal, ANC will destroy you, frankly they do not really deserve an intellect of your caliber! ''Open'' your eyes by leaving the party of idiots, womanizers and illiterates!!
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l984

Posted 273 days ago
@ QPCLCD308

You took a whole 28 mins this time! What took you so long?!

@ Mica Paris - when are you going to finally honour your stalker/troll with some response? You keep on making him 'come' again and again - but you are not saying anything. Please have mercy, the suspense is killing us!
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Makoya1zn

Posted 273 days ago
@ QPCLCD308

You wrote :
Surely leaving ANC and joining DA will help our country a great deal, ANC will destroy you, frankly they do not really deserve an intellect of your caliber! ''Open'' your eyes by leaving the party of idiots, womanizers and illiterates!!


You are sound like a very angry & hostile person. What does the ANC/DA have to do with the with this. Surely for me it is about children & how they should be nurtured & protected from bullying but then again i could be wrong.










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MicaParis

Posted 273 days ago
Are you trying to score political points or glory madam or what! I will remain ''ANC CADRE'' come rain or sunshine, I am at a very ''high profile'' rank to be lured by ''eyes of colorful sweets'' !!!

I am a committed patriot who will never ''sell'' the ''soul and flash'' of ''our'' people for individual self ''penny and gold'', Never in my life will I ever be a ''sell out'' through politicking business at expense of our people who I value and love for the honest and real feeling of fraternity!!

i_stub_born

Posted 273 days ago
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...probably appliccants to ANC-Youth Fleague........all are courageous in group and in an alley, then they grow round and purple and their courage spreads to six bodyguards..........

i_stub_born

Posted 273 days ago
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Watch you tube: //w w w .youtube.com/watch?v=0ABQ_9xEcn4.

It will make you think, because both parties have their own load of problems.....