Years after being known only as 'Yellow', Thuli Nhlapo confronts her mother about her real father and real surname

Known as "Yellow", she was bullied at home and at school. Fearing that she had a terrible disease, she withdrew into herself

13 January 2019 - 16:47 By BOOKSLIVE and nb-uitgewers/publishers
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 "I hated being pregnant with you. I used to cry the whole day. I hated carrying you in my stomach." 

Thuli Nhlapo grew up constantly hearing these words from her mother. She was seven years old when she realised that no one called her by name. 

Known as "Yellow", she was bullied at home and at school. Fearing that she had a terrible disease, she withdrew into herself.

Years later, Thuli is still haunted by her childhood experiences. She confronts her mother about her real father and real surname.

Getting no answers, Thuli embarks on years of searching for the truth.

In the process, she uncovers unsettling family secrets that irrevocably change all their lives.

"Whilst exposing and exploding the impact of family secrets on people’s sense of identity and well-being, it is also a celebration of one woman’s determination to live her life to the fullest." - Mmatshilo Motsei

Thuli Nhlapo is the Managing Director of her own media company, Thuli Nhlapo Media. She has previously worked for ABC News (USA),  and SABC News as reporter and/or producer. She has also written for The Sowetan, Mail & Guardian and The Star. Nhlapo works as a communication strategist and content producer and is based in Gauteng.

Article provided by Kwela an imprint of NB Publishers.

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