Bonnie Mbuli opens up about struggling with 'helpers etiquette'

Not sure why we're on this app fronting like hiring helpers isn't more complex for blk females,what r we gaining from shaming each other?

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

When they are ur age,there's a subtle resentment &entitlement,when their older,it's "I'm not doing a thing this kid tells me to do"🤷🏽‍♀️ https://t.co/X5Pft2jsq1

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

Don't know bbz,I'm still out here talking to helpers like they my moms, all apologetic,like "bengicela ukhuthi, mhlawumbe um'unesikhathi.... https://t.co/Re6CdraFyy

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

We also become very apologetic because we know & care about their struggles so we let so much slide,when it wouldn't be tolerated elsewhere https://t.co/F2TpJuiJF3

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

😂😂Umuntu will be moody when u get home but when bae gets there,laughs at all his jokes and can suddenly stay late if need be.😂😂 https://t.co/ZxLQv8T6KM

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

My last 1 wld tell me dreams of bad things happening to me & my family,&that she's praying for me,after a while I was like "no maan!kangaka? https://t.co/c9BoJBXtu1

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

I'll join ur writing team,you haven't adulted till you've been summoned to the CCMA,I've seen 🔥 https://t.co/mCRc4ydiic

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 22, 2017

@portiagumedesa I said to the CCMA official,"I've got a live show at 4,I can't stay long";she said "u can even be here till 7 if we want" 😭

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

When I found empty shoe boxes.leather jackets and anything with a tag on it gone,yeah on the spot,knee jerk ! https://t.co/MhPL6wssMO

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

She did over a year,I kept asking abt stuff and she'd say she doesn't know so I'd believe coz I'm forgetful at best. https://t.co/BMQxwiu5tN

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017

Pls forgive her. https://t.co/cy0DxrhNoR

— Portia Gumede (@portiagumedesa) July 23, 2017

I have,it was easier coz I'd been so good to her,beyond even my own expectations 🤷🏽‍♀️ https://t.co/S5ZJePRASS

— Bonnie Mbuli (@BonnieMbuli) July 23, 2017