Zodwa Wabantu is NOT here to sell people fake relationship goals!
Everyone will agree that in the age of Twitter, a million dating shows and Instagram perfect couples, it has gotten even more difficult to date but not for Zodwa, in fact for her it's simple.
She explained to TshisaLIVE why dating her Ben 10 is as easy as 123. She's been living what looks like her best life on social media with her bae.
So what is her secret to happy dating?
Don't kill yourself trying to be #relationshipgoals for other people.
"People think just because I always have my face or butt splashed across newspapers that I will start behaving like some of their faves but I won't. That also applies to my relationship, I am not with my boyfriend for anyone other than me. I am not here to sell relationship goals."
Zodwa said every couple had a different set of problems to deal with daily and she doesn't understand why people insist on wanting a "how to manual" from people who are just like them.
The entertainer said that as for her and her boo, they just loved each other and were both in it for the happiness.
"I don't know how many times people want me to explain this. I love him and he loves me me, right now, in this moment. If that changes tomorrow and I am not happy, I won't stay because I'm someone's relationship goals. I'm here for happiness, if it doesn't end that's great but if it does, that's great too."
She said if she woke up and decided that she's unhhappy, she would leave in a heartbeat.
"We both work and then we make time for each other. We are ruling in our won little kingdom so why would we be concerned about world standards?" she asked.
It's something to think about. Make your own rules and goals, because it's your life to live. Being other people's goals won't help you with anything."