Skolopad reveals one of her deepest fears in life: being a barren wife

09 May 2018 - 14:35 By Chrizelda Kekana
Skolopad says one of her deepest fears is not being able to give her future husband a child.
Skolopad says one of her deepest fears is not being able to give her future husband a child.
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Skolopad has made a name for herself as a woman who couldn't care less about what others thinks of her, but she has told TshisaLIVE that one of her deepest fears about settling down, is that she will not be able to give her husband children.

Skolopad will joke about almost everything and has built a wall so high around her heart that it takes a lot to hurt her feelings.

However, she opened up for the first time about her worries since she had her womb removed in 2016.

"At least I already have a daughter that I love and I am proud of. But it didn't take away the pain of knowing that if God decided to bless me with a husband, I'd always be the barren wife. I would never be able to give him children and that scares me. That's why I even just avoid settling down."

While it isn't breaking news that Skolopad had her womb removed after a cancer scare, the entertainer has expressed that in addition to her desire to have more kids, it was her potential husband and his family's reaction that scared her more.

"We all know of at least one woman who is treated like trash just because she didn't give her husband kids. It's not right, but it happens. They will make you feel like you are not enough and I dread that day with all my heart. But only God knows," she told TshisaLIVE.

Skolopad said music and performances have been her escape since the operation and that as soon as she could walk, she went back to dancing in semi-naked outfits. Something she admitted she got a whole lot of backlash for.

However, Skolopad said public opinion over her life didn't have any hold over her.

She only hopes to one find a man that will always tell her:

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