'I latched on to Mam Mary in a way I can’t explain' - Pearl Thusi remembers Ma Mary Twala

07 July 2020 - 06:00 By kyle zeeman
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Pearl Thusi shared many great moments with Ma Mary Twala.
Pearl Thusi shared many great moments with Ma Mary Twala.
Image: Instagram/ Pearl Thusi

Actress Pearl Thusi has been left heartbroken by the death of veteran actress Mary Twala at the weekend, recounting fond memories she shared with the star.

Mary died on Saturday morning at Netcare Park Lane Hospital in Johannesburg. She was 80 years old.

Her death sent shock waves across the nation, as friends and fans poured onto social media to pay tribute to the veteran.

Pearl added her message of tribute on Instagram, sharing a video of herself with Mary.

She said the nation was blessed to have witnessed Ma Mary's talent, and she was drawn to it.

“I latched on to Mam Mary in a way I can’t explain. I was a shadow or tail on her at work. I always checked for her first in the call sheet. I’d beg to be in the same scenes as her but because all we did was laugh and make jokes nonstop - they ended up separating us so work would get done.”

Pearl said her moments with Mary were filled with questions, trying to understand the genius Mary was.

“We’d sit outside together and I’d bother her with endless questions and we ate lunch together. She also sent me around to do stuff and sometimes she was just getting rid of me, lol, so she could learn her lines.”

She added that Mary was fiercely self-sufficient and would get annoyed when someone made a fuss or tried to do things for her.

Pearl shared a story of how the pair had witnessed a fly in someone's food on set and had joked about it for months after, saying Mary was the definition of enjoying life and work.

“For me, this is the definition of doing the work you love and enjoying the journey to your destination. Spreading love and positivity with every situation around you. She did that, and so is her son. So proud to know both of them and hope this gives you an idea of what happiness looks like but maybe, it’s one of those where you just had to have been there.”

Read Pearl's touching post below.

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Our generation was truly blessed. Look at the giants in this video, Bab Joe Mafela, Mam Thembi, Mam Nandi... crazy. So on this particular day was the only day I recorded my shenanigans with Mam Mary on set. I’ve always been inexplicably attracted to hers & @somizi energy & sense of humour. There’s always a time where I struggle breathing through fits of laughter because of them- EVERYTIME I see them. I latched on to Mam Mary in a way I can’t explain. I was a shadow or tail on her at work. I always checked for her first in the call sheet. I’d beg to be in the same scenes as her but because all we did was laugh and make jokes nonstop- they ended up separating us so work would get done 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 . We’d sit outside together and I’d bother her with endless questions and we ate lunch together. She also sent me around to do stuff and sometimes she was just getting rid of me lol so she could learn her lines 😂🙄 . Or she’d be annoyed that we did things for her because she very self sufficient. So back to what happened that day... we found a fly in Bab Tiger’s food. A BIG GREEN fly that landed with the gravy on his pap. He wasn’t pleased at all and we ended up not even eating our own food 😭😂 . But we laughed for atleast 2 weeks and teased catering endlessly. She then started imitating the fly and as you can see I didn’t cope. I wish I took a video of when we initially started laughing about the fly and describing it to people. I was with @somizi the other day and basically I laughed just as much. Clearly the magic of making people happy can be passed on genetically. I have a terrible memory but I could never forget the day of the fly in Bab Tiger’s lunch . We had to be dragged to set and calm down to work and it was done. For me, this is the definition of doing the work you love and enjoying the journey to your destination. Spreading love and positivity with every situation around you. SHE DID THAT. And so is her son. So proud to know both of them and hope this gives you an idea of what happiness looks like but maybe, it’s one of those where you just had to have been there.

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