Minnie Ntuli opens up about her experience in the 'Real Housewives of Durban'

Minnie Ntuli has been making waves since joining The Real Housewives of Durban. 

From butting heads with singer Londie London to questioning Precious' business and how she treats her employees, Minnie has made the trends list with each episode.

“When the opportunity came I saw it as a chance to step out of my comfort zone and be part of something bold, loud and very Durban. I also wanted to represent a different type of woman, someone who’s still figuring things out, but doing so authentically and unapologetically,” she said. 

“I was nervous about how I’d be perceived. People will judge you for breathing wrong on camera. I also knew if I went in with an open heart and stayed true to myself, I’d be OK. I didn’t expect the emotional rollercoaster, though.”

Being thrust into the spotlight has not been easy for Minnie, she admits, especially when it comes to online criticism and backlash.

“People say hurtful things with zero context and it stings, but I try to separate the noise from the truth. I read what I need to grow and I release what doesn’t serve me. I’ve had to remind myself daily that being flawsome means owning your mistakes, learning out loud.

“I take breaks. I protect my peace. I pray a lot and I’ve learnt to remind myself that public opinion doesn’t define me. The people who know my heart matter the most. Still, it’s tough. Some days are harder than others, but I’m learning not to take everything personally.”

Minnie said there were moments where she wished she had portrayed herself differently, but at times parts were cut out which removed the context as to why she decided to act the way she did.

“People think I’m just this hot-headed, defensive girl with an attitude, but there’s more to me. I’m soft-hearted, loyal, thoughtful. I just happen to be fiery when pushed. I feel deeply and sometimes that comes out messily, but I’m not fake. What you see is what you get.”

While viewers witnessed Minnie and Londie engage in heated arguments, Minnie said she's made an effort to apologise to her.

“There’s no dramatic backstory or secret feud. What happened between us happened on the show, in real time, and, unfortunately, it spiralled. Emotions were high, egos were bruised and communication broke down. I’ve since reflected and reached out privately to apologise. What viewers saw wasn’t the full picture, but my actions in those moments are on me.”