#DMF | That date was intense AF & tweeps know why

Twitter was left shook by Date My Family bachelor Jongikhaya's "controlling" ways that led to the date being one of the most intense viewers have seen on the show.

The 34-year-old bachelor revealed that he stays in Hillbrow, Johannesburg and all he wanted from the show was to find a respectful woman. He said he's in business management, loves sport and is an athlete.

All nice qualities until he began showing his controlling side and signs of insecurities that had Twitter telling potential dates to run!

First Jongikhaya explained that he wants a woman who would "obey his commands" and this woman mustn't drink alcohol or smoke. This woman also needs to be a 'Mozalwane' (born-again Christian) who attends church every Sunday.

Watch the very awkward and intense first date...

Jongikhaya also shook Twitter when he told his date that he isn't looking for a woman to love him, just one to respect him. He also added that a woman will not speak her mind in his house!

At that point there were just too many red-flags, so tweeps just shared their feels in memes: