IN MEMES | OPW gave Twitter another 'bekezela' bride *sigh*
While weddings are always joyous occasions and OPW always leaves Twitter with positive vibes, last night's episode had a different effect on tweeps who felt that marriage should never be a reward for "holding on".
After hearing the love story of Vera and Musa, tweeps termed the wedding "another bekezela" wedding. The term 'bekezela' is one of the most popular terms included by most older people when giving the bride advice for marriage. It means that no matter what hardships the couple confronts, the wife should always "hold on and be strong" for the sake of their marriage.
Unfortunately in Mzansi, that has often meant that women take cheating men back and endure all kinds of abuse in the name of uk'bekezela.
Twitter wasn't therew for it at all, they had the memes for it.
After listening to their story, the bride definitely deserve this ring😂🤣 🙈#OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/u3C3pTXNVn
— Tumie (@Nandyie_SA) May 20, 2018
#OurPerfectWedding Who the heck came with this notion of ukubekezela emjolweni so that you can be deemed ready to get married? Please show yourself I wanna send you something pic.twitter.com/6eoMNXuf22
— Ntombi (@uNtombi_) May 20, 2018
Another weak woman using her kids to hold on to a trashy man!!#OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/iOuZjXx7mp
— Boitshwarelo Mothibi (@boitshwarelogm) May 20, 2018
This is a classic case of "Oksalayo I have the ring and certificate"#OurperfectWedding pic.twitter.com/kgqEzhQuQy
— Boitshwarelo Mothibi (@boitshwarelogm) May 20, 2018
The groom's energy was also too much for viewers to take in. There is happiness and then there is whatever that groom was "high" on commented tweeps.
No but really, he was way too hyperactive.
#OurPerfectWedding Bro, this groom must be seated with the flower girls. I bet he orders the kiddies meal ko McDonald's. pic.twitter.com/f8MrkZHLDw
— SuperSayenSwixzii (@AthiBakana21) May 20, 2018
Hay the Groom yaphapha serious 😂😂 #OurperfectWedding pic.twitter.com/MyO8Mg24XI
— 💕Fat ass Bae💕 (@Jenny_msJ) May 20, 2018
This old man doesn’t look like he’s done playing!🤔🤔🤔#OurPerfectWedding #OurPerfectWedding #OPW pic.twitter.com/QqJuSlwIdy
— Thabo kwenaite (@tbosekwn) May 20, 2018
Sivelelwe today #DateMyFamily we had a sniper and #OurperfectWedding there he says he is a charmer pic.twitter.com/kxZIom1KH6
— Rolivhuwa (@BoitumeloSegal1) May 20, 2018
The way the groom is so hyper i bet some of his side chicks are sitting there looking like febe se
— Kamo Kabisto (@KamoKabisto) May 20, 2018
😂😂😂😂 #OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/NXIm98QWZz
#OurperfectWedding The Groom is sooooooooooooooooooooo Extra pic.twitter.com/3En9O9MNi8
— Blackdoll 👑 (@blackdollpalesa) May 20, 2018
Is he excited for the wedding or being on Tv? #OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/ufsM888S7x
— Tebogo (@Tebza_iOS) May 20, 2018
There was also this bit of truth that this mama dropped at the reception.
When she said, "our exes have ruined us," we all felt that in our cores.
Me when asked to speak at my ex's wedding #OurPerfectWedding 😂😅 pic.twitter.com/goZft5JuZs
— Belinda Goliath (@Bee_Goliath) May 20, 2018
When that gogo said "ama ex wethu asimoshile",I felt that👀 #ourperfectwedding pic.twitter.com/FvxoRiO3M4
— Phenyo Yulenda (@phenyo_yulenda) May 20, 2018
"ama exe ethu asimoshile" #OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/jSJz6PoNOF
— makaLwando (@Makheswa_mathe) May 20, 2018
Ama Ex wethu asimoshile?? Yhooooo #Ourperfectwedding pic.twitter.com/5wFPT4JI0C
— Nontokozo Shabalala (@NontokozoShaba6) May 20, 2018
“Ama ex wethu asimoshile”...I felt that #OurPerfectWedding pic.twitter.com/PiYIR2OJ0n
— Zweli Z (@Zwelethina) May 20, 2018