#DMF | That date was intense AF & tweeps know why
According to Twitter that guy seems controlling and insecure...
Twitter was left shook by Date My Family bachelor Jongikhaya's "controlling" ways that led to the date being one of the most intense viewers have seen on the show.
The 34-year-old bachelor revealed that he stays in Hillbrow, Johannesburg and all he wanted from the show was to find a respectful woman. He said he's in business management, loves sport and is an athlete.
All nice qualities until he began showing his controlling side and signs of insecurities that had Twitter telling potential dates to run!
First Jongikhaya explained that he wants a woman who would "obey his commands" and this woman mustn't drink alcohol or smoke. This woman also needs to be a 'Mozalwane' (born-again Christian) who attends church every Sunday.
Watch the very awkward and intense first date...
The kind of first dates we are subjected to 😷😭 #DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/xKT6UDsvQd
— Miss Lelo (@MsLeloB) December 9, 2018
Jongikhaya also shook Twitter when he told his date that he isn't looking for a woman to love him, just one to respect him. He also added that a woman will not speak her mind in his house!
At that point there were just too many red-flags, so tweeps just shared their feels in memes:
I can already tell that this episode will be on fire🔥🔥#DMFMzansi pic.twitter.com/JLaxQvekbO
— Happiness dube (@Luvbird4eva) December 9, 2018
These are some of the reasons why our mothers and sisters are being killed daily 💔💔 #DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/rdBLkcgjIx
— Prunnie Mhlabane (@PrunnieMhlabane) December 9, 2018
the nerve😐 #dmfmzansi pic.twitter.com/zfs78fGppE
— 🔥 (@BNkompela) December 9, 2018
He wants a church girl......why didn't he look for her at church? #DateMyFamily #DMFMzansi pic.twitter.com/miZjEEbpUk
— H.E PENUEL NKOSI (@Penuel_N_Nkosi) December 9, 2018
“Drinking destroys a person’s dignity” - Jongikhaya #DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/Qf4OqIU3du
— Menzi Ngcobo (@MrMenziN) December 9, 2018
A guy who demands respect in a relationship usually lacks it....#DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/lohg9R973U
— Patriq Harper (@PatriqDuma) December 9, 2018
#Datemyfamily I'm sure that this guy doesn't allow woman on top during the tlof tlof pic.twitter.com/9XNL8npIbY
— Sasha Alonso (@LetuOfentse) December 9, 2018
Old people must look for partners in churches or stokvels not on #DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/95NxguW8wx
— Zama Mvulane ®️ (@zmvulane) December 9, 2018
#DateMyFamily Dear MEN. The current year is 2018 and 2019 is next in less than 21 days. Let us un-learn the ways our grandfathers treated our grandmothers. Even our fathers have learned to respect and appreciate our mothers. Why are we like this in 2018? 😢😢 pic.twitter.com/zhgN19zO8M
— Nkosinathi B Mabaso ⏳ (@NkosinathiBMab1) December 9, 2018
Xhosas going head to head #DateMyFamily pic.twitter.com/8MJWzqK0MB
— Mayeh (@ndim_umagumede) December 9, 2018