Lebo Mashile slammed for comments on GBV
Poet and actress Lebo Mashile has caught heat online for her most recent commentary on gender-based violence.
It all started after Twitter users got into a debate about rape, sexual assault and sexual abuse allegations on a scale much larger than individual cases. The discussion migrated to chats about people who were aware that their partners/spouses have GBV-related accusations levelled against them.
Lebo made her stance clear: The star will always show respect towards women (who she calls 'M') in this predicament, regardless of whether they know that their partners have allegations against them.
“I’ll always extend grace to women, because no matter which side of the situation you are on, as a woman, it’s always shitty. It’s shitty for the victims of the perpetrator, it’s shitty for his partner, it’s shitty if M leaves, or if she remains silent, or speaks out,” she wrote.
However, Lebo's comments were met with criticism online. Many disagreed with her stance, saying she was encouraging others to ignore accusations against alleged perpetrators.
Check out their comments below:
Do people realise what they are saying?! Its shitty for an accomplice?! Well... uhm... it should be? https://t.co/mAgSLslASQ
— Coin Auntie (@Raraloko) February 1, 2021
Lebo I beg you to reconsider your position with this one. Yini Yesu ses’goduka. ☹️ https://t.co/JUZZN7M09A
— Haska (@niyadikabethuna) February 1, 2021
This is way too much room if we're being honest. This particular situation has context. It's shitty for everyone? Not really, we have context and that MUST be maintained because that's where the contention lies. Aowa banna. https://t.co/zOOEkshkj7
— Lover (@Matshep_o) February 1, 2021
You’re extending grace in an instance where you have no right. Exercise discernment Lebogang because your sentiments still show that you are not listening. It’s dishonest, harmful and disingenuous. https://t.co/gZPIKZpNAF
— Khanyisa (@Dear_Aza_) February 1, 2021
except it’s not the same. and rounding it off to “it’s shitty on either side” negates the harm that can also be caused by the partner (whether she was lied to or not) to the victims. the extension is grace is another power dynamic that’s very dangerous. https://t.co/isO9DCF4YZ
— Don't touch my hair (@MissZKJ_) February 1, 2021
The Hotel Rwanda star often weighs in on GBV and how society should be tackling the dubbed 'second pandemic'. Just recently, the star took to Twitter to say that victims of GBV still feel a deep sense of shame even in this more “aware” society.
She also highlighted that with more discussions around GBV cropping up, it has made it easier for more victims to come forward with their stories.
“This marks a change in our culture. We’re moving towards creating a society where victims are believed. However, please be aware of the legal implications of naming someone as a perpetrator. This could lead to further trauma. Make sure you aren’t inadvertently breaking the law,” she tweeted.