Meet Miss SA's first openly queer contestant, Sibabalwe Gcilitshana
History has been made after Sibabalwe Gcilitshana this year became the first openly queer woman to participate in the Miss South Africa contest.
The 24-year-old, who hails from Cape Town, was revealed to be one of the top 16 finalists at a ceremony on June 11.
Speaking about the groundbreaking moment, Sibabalwe told TimesLIVE that she hopes to be visible and take up space that has not previously been held by people who are like her and actively represent people from her community who can resonate with her experience.
"I want people to know that my identity is not the only narrative of why I am here, I hope this will in fact normalise different identities and I hope that the next queer, bisexual and non-binary finalists to come will never have to be labeled by their identity; they will just be considered Miss SA finalists," she said.
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Today is the bravest I have ever been in all of my life. I am not sure where it came from however I keep reflecting on the many women who have been brave in the past so that I could live unapologetically. I hope I have made them proud. I am excited to announce that I am one of your Top 16 finalists for #misssa2019 and I could not be more honoured. I am here to hold space for everyone, be visible and tell you that you are enough! You are it and you deserve to see yourself represented in all spaces! Ndim inkosazana, watsho uMama ✨ #misssa2019 #dreamwalker #sibaformisssa
The justice and transformation honours graduate from the University of Cape Town (UCT) is the the daughter of actress Sibulele Gcilitshana who is known for her starring role as lesbian teacher Beth Mazibuko on the SABC1 drama series Society.
She understands that living in South Africa as a queer woman isn't easy, but she is determined to share her story.
Speaking on how she plans on overcoming the backlash from naysayers and homophobes who might not want her to represent the country because of her being queer, she said she is secure enough in who she is and that she refuses to have her purpose derailed by homophobes.
"Firstly, I think anyone actively trying to tear down another human should not be given any airtime. It’s not productive and some times not engaging them is the best thing to do.
"Secondly, I am secure enough in who I am that I absolutely refuse to have my purpose to be derailed by homophobes. I am here to facilitate a process of learning and unlearning and I would much rather use those opportunities as moments to educate people on diversity and the individual rights we all have which are protected under the constitution," she said.
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My annual #selfcare ritual has been to document the toughest moments of each year by getting a new #piercing. This year’s 7th and latest piercing is appropriately named the ‘smiley’ because you only see it when I smile. 2018 has been so tough, I’m ready for a second but every time I smile I’m reminded about how I managed to get through a tough time and have this beautiful jewellery to commemorate it. May the powers that be carry me till the end of this month; that is legit all I’m asking for and I will handle the rest #thedaybeforemonday
Sharing some words of encouragement to other queer people, Sibabalwe said they must never make themselves small for other people.
"I would say that they are more brilliant and powerful than they will be told and that their identity, especially the parts that make them unique, is their biggest strength," she said.
The Miss SA pageant will take place on August 9, Women's Day, at the Sun Arena at Time Square in Pretoria.